Swingers Club Rules in Dublin
Clear and respectful guidelines for our swingers club in Dublin, designed to create a safe, welcoming environment for all guests.
If you’re new to the lifestyle or visiting for the first time, these rules will help you understand what to expect at our swingers events in Dublin and how we keep things safe, respectful, and enjoyable for everyone.
To keep our community fun and sexy for all, we ask every guest to follow these essentials.
The rules of common decency apply across all thing that we do in the Club. Below is a list of the more specific things that you should be aware of. Violation of the rules below will lead to your exclusion from the club and event going forward.
Party Rules
Our swingers party rules are designed to ensure safety, consent, and discretion at every event.
These rules are constantly evolving to ensure safety and discretion for everyone in our community so please watch this space.
If you have any questions about these rules please reach out to ejswingclub@gmail.com and we will happily help you out.
Party time
We typically meet around 8:00pm after which the ladies will head up to the rooms to freshen up. The gents will follow up shortly after. It is not OK for men to include themselves in this initial group.
BYOB
Parties are generally a BYOB affair, If you're bringing alcohol, please have it in a very discreet bag. We don’t want to draw the attention of the staff. So no Supermarket Bag's for Life bags.
Drink & Drugs
Everyone likes to take a drink and it is ok to have a drink to calm your nerves or to be social, but it is not ok to be drunk or badly behaved because of too much drink. You don't want to be embarassed by being asked to leave early. Also, you don't want it to effect your performance! Moderate your alcohol intake by drinking water. Enjoy the moment and don't let it pass you by! Drug taking of any illegal drugs is strictly forbidden and we are not 420 friendly.
Stay at the party
We ask that you stay at the party until you're ready to leave, it will not be possible to keep going up and down to reception for smoking during the party.
Phones away
To make sure everyone has the discretion they deserve please keep your phones in your pockets for the duration of the party. If you and you want a photo for personal use and all your play partners consent you can give your phone to one of the organizers and we'll happily take a photo for you.
Consent is at the heart of every swingers event in Dublin at EJ’s Club.
Always ask before touching or initiating any physical contact. No one should take offence, we’re all here to have safe, consensual fun. No truly means NO. Playing or nudity is not an obligation to anyone, just an option. Our parties are for swingers and if you are a Bi or Bi Curious Male then this is not a party where that can be explored.
No means No
Respecting boundaries is essential in any lifestyle club environment.
Some people like to include others in their play. Giving or receiving consent (permission) is important in case you want to touch someone else. You cannot know what someone else wants, or even what you yourself want, without talking about consent. Therefore, always ask permission before touching someone you do not know well yet. No-one will find this strange, and neither will anyone blame you for saying 'No, thank you', 'No, not now' or simply 'No'.
Safe safe. ALWAYS!
Play is always safe play with plenty of condoms available. You are welcome to bring your own but we have plenty available.
Respect each other's space
Looking at others is allowed of course, but do not disturb others in their play by making comments or talking loudly. Keep proper distance. If someone would like you to participate, they will make that clear to you themselves.
Keep it clean
Bins will be provided, Please put used condoms in the bin. It might sound like common sense, but it needs saying!
Community Chat Rules
Our private chat helps members connect before attending events in Dublin.
Keep then until 8pm
Some of us have family that could look at our phones during the day. To avoid awkward conversations we ask that you keep chats and photos “family friendly” until after 8pm.
Keep things civil
Discrimination or harassment of any kind is not acceptable and will result in banning from the group and exclusion from parties
Permission to DM
There should be NO DMing people from the group without asking on the group first. Once granted, permission to DM can be revoked and people should not take offence to this.
No stalking
Any one seen to stalk or follow anyone else on the group will be banned and excluded.
No unsolicited D pics!
We all know that we will see photos of people in various states of undress, however when in a one on one chat be sure that people want to see photos.
Respect the law
A lot of us have a lot of photos of us playing with other members of the community and the wider world. Please remember that it is illegal to share these photos without the consent of all the people in the photo. Please be aware of the law here.
First Time at a Swingers Club?
If it’s your first time visiting a swingers club in Dublin, you’re welcome to take things at your own pace. There’s no pressure to do anything—many guests come just to experience the atmosphere, meet people, and feel comfortable before joining in.
If you have any questions before attending get in touch with us.